When you learn to understand Presence and ..

What a confident 'strut' means( for you lame azz it means your walk). Also you realize how much of said 'strut' your self confidence is directly tied and projected!.. I vividly remember the effort on my end. I just didn't want to look goofy..sub-consciously, I never wanted to be taken as a joke unless I was joining in/telling one. The development of my walk came in phases of maturity . It started with my 1st. Puppy 🐶 "drunken love" and teenage WTF is this feeling?(I felt like Toby Maguire walking down the street in Spiderman 3.)

Don't just be a man..EXIST

Put "THE" in bold,italics and underline it..In other words define yourself. You are not going to be all things perfect to everyone. That statement is meant to say,Try as you may their is a segment that's just not going to give you a chance. Furthermore, not allow "themselves" to view you any different from their perception..press on!
An obstacle in the way of your life goal to become the man YOU can be proud of looking back at the image starring back at you.**cautionary note**cautionary note** a$$holes, bullies and bullsh8t artist are being replaced at an alarming rate with wigs and a mean a$$ shoe game. The American pie act is a little dated. If you're old enough to be a college grad. You're too old for constant antics. Listen carefully..grown a$$ men don't/shouldn't have a #Ted.( dig the movie though..buuut) The message is simple..try..harder..

Always splash before you dash! ALWAYS..

Think of it as the only way to go.Women rarely leave home without attempting to put on some sort of make-up. That's how important you should feel 'smell good'..cologne...is to a Millennium man(we're in the Millennium.. shh..)..